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  • Writer's pictureOyindamola Malomo

Where Did All My Money Go?!!!

Creating Financial Stability in Unstable Times



Inflation. It’s the buzzword on everyone’s lips these days, from the bustling streets of Lagos to the serene suburbs of Los Angeles. I’m currently in Nigeria, and let me tell you, the inflation here is not for the faint of heart. Prices are skyrocketing faster than you can say "how much?" Yet, just the other day, I was chatting with a colleague in the US, and she shared the same woes. Inflation is like that one uninvited guest who crashes every party, and suddenly, everyone’s talking about them—but not in a good way.


It’s frustrating, isn’t it? You wish you could snap your fingers and fix it. Imagine waking up to a world where everyone is happy, financially secure, and living their best lives. Unfortunately, none of us has that kind of superpower. What we do have, however, is the ability to control something much more personal—our own economy. That's right: your personal economy.


We may not be able to wave a wand and change the global economy, but the good news is, we can take charge of how we manage our money, our mindset, and our resources. It’s easy to complain (believe me, I’ve done my fair share), but complaints don’t change a thing. What does? Action.


Let’s dive into how you can reclaim control and build a personal economy that’s solid, even in a shaky world. Here are a few tips to get you started:


 


1. Invest in Yourself


The best investment you’ll ever make isn’t in stocks, real estate, or Bitcoin. It’s in you. Yes, you heard that right.


In times of economic uncertainty, the value you bring to the table can make all the difference. Think about it: the more skills you have, the more problems you can solve, and the more valuable you become. It’s simple economics—value creates wealth


So, ask yourself: When was the last time you read a book that expanded your thinking? Paid for a course that added to your skills? Or attended a seminar that left you inspired and ready to conquer the world? I know, I know—it’s easy to get comfortable with free resources, and believe me, there’s plenty of valuable free stuff out there. But nothing beats the return on investment that comes from paying to improve yourself. Your future self will look back and thank you for it.


I’m talking about real growth—stretching your mind, learning new skills, and becoming the kind of person who thrives no matter what the economy is doing. Because, guess what? When you grow, your opportunities grow.


 

2. Invest in Putting Your Money to Work


Now, let’s talk about making your money work for you. This doesn’t mean some mystical process where your money starts multiplying by itself. It’s about smart investments.


We often hear about living a “good life”—you know, going on vacations, dining out, splurging a little here and there. But you don’t want to be the person who’s dipping into their savings or worse, going into debt just to live that life. No, you want to be the person who’s doing all these things from your passive income.


So, how do you get there? Start by learning about the investment opportunities around you. Whether it’s real estate, stocks, bonds, money markets, or even high-yield savings accounts, the key is to find what works for you. Don’t just throw your money into any venture because it sounds cool. Do your research. Get advice from experts if you need to. But most importantly, start.


You don’t need a million dollars to begin investing. Start small, start smart. Over time, with the right investments, your money will grow, and you’ll be well on your way to financial independence.


 

3. Invest in Relationships


We’ve all heard the saying, “Your network is your net worth.” As cliché as it may sound, it’s true.


Imagine you have a fantastic business idea or a skill that could really take off, but you don’t know the right people who can help you scale it. That’s where relationships come in. Having the right people in your corner can open doors you didn’t even know existed.


But let’s be clear: I’m not talking about becoming a leech. No one likes a person who only shows up when they need something. Be intentional about building mutually beneficial relationships. Surround yourself with people who inspire you, challenge you, and most importantly, believe in your vision. And be that person for others, too. You never know whose name will come up in a room full of opportunities.


The more you invest in your relationships, the more opportunities will find you. So, don’t underestimate the power of a well-placed referral or a timely introduction. The right connections can take you further than you ever imagined.


 

4. Invest in Knowledge (Especially About Money)


You can’t manage what you don’t understand. Period.


If you’re still in the dark about how money works, it’s time to change that. No, I’m not asking you to become a financial guru, but at least learn the basics. Learn how money moves. Understand how savings, investments, and debt management work. In short, don’t be financially ignorant.


It bugs me when people shy away from money conversations. We handle money every single day. So, why be afraid of understanding it? The truth is, money doesn’t have to be a source of stress or confusion. With the right knowledge, it can become a tool that works in your favor. And let’s face it: in today’s world, staying ignorant about money is a luxury none of us can afford.


Pick up books about personal finance. Listen to podcasts. Follow blogs. Take a course if you need to. The more you know about how money works, the more empowered you’ll feel about managing your own.


 

5. Don’t Be Afraid to Look at the Numbers


Okay, let’s get real for a second: a lot of people are terrified of looking at their bank accounts. I get it—it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by expenses, debt, and the general state of your finances. But here’s the deal: you can’t fix what you refuse to see.


Stop running from your numbers. Instead, face them head-on. Track your income and expenses. Look at where your money is going every month. And once you have a clear picture, you can start making better decisions.


Budgeting doesn’t have to be boring or restrictive. It’s about giving every naira or dollar a job. When you know exactly where your money is going, you’re in control. And trust me, control feels a lot better than chaos.


Taking charge of your personal economy is a journey, but it’s one worth taking. We can’t control inflation or the global economy, but we can control how we manage our resources, how we invest in ourselves, and how we position ourselves for opportunities. It all starts with a decision—a decision to take action and stop complaining.


Because at the end of the day, where did all the money go? Well, if you’re not careful, it’ll slip right through your fingers. But if you choose to invest wisely, both in yourself and your finances, you’ll not only know where your money went—you’ll know exactly how to make it come back.


Take charge. Your personal economy is in your hands.


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