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  • Writer's pictureOyindamola Malomo

Perception - Shaping Your Reality



Regardless of how chaotic our daily routines get, the way in which we perceive the world around us holds significant sway over the direction our lives take. Our perception acts as a sort of lens, filtering and interpreting the experiences we encounter on a daily basis. It is this lens that shapes our understanding of the world and gives meaning to our existence. The power of perception cannot be understated; it has the ability to determine the paths we choose, the decisions we make, and ultimately, what we become.


Our perception is often overshadowed by the clamor of external influences and the weight of societal expectations. We get so caught up in worrying about how others perceive us that we forget to stop and consider how we perceive ourselves. Taking time for introspection and self-reflection is crucial to understanding our own perception and, in turn, shaping our lives.


Imagine your perception as a pair of binoculars. How you position them dictates what you see, how far you see, and what possibilities you perceive. Are you positioning your lenses to focus on limitations, obstacles, or on the vast horizon of opportunities? The answer lies within, in the quiet chambers of self-awareness.


To truly comprehend the world around us, we must take the time to consciously fine-tune our perception. It is only by adjusting our focus that we can gain a clear understanding of our surroundings. Once we have found the right perspective, we should take a picture and store it in our memory, like a snapshot frozen in time. This image serves as a powerful tool for calibration, allowing us to continually adjust and refine our perceptions, even in the face of apparent contradiction. With our stored images as a guide, we can navigate the complexities of the world with a greater sense of clarity and purpose.


The essence of perception lies in our ability to sense, to become aware, through our senses. It's not merely about what our eyes behold, but how deeply we listen, how keenly we feel. It's about tasting the sweetness of possibilities, smelling the fragrance of hope, hearing the symphony of dreams awaiting manifestation.


When we attune ourselves to this depth of perception, possibilities unfolds. Suddenly, the mundane transforms into the extraordinary. A cup, once viewed as half empty, brims with potential, and we begin to see a half-full cup waiting to be filled with our aspirations. Put your mind to work!


So, as we step into each day, let's ask ourselves: What do we sense? What do we believe is possible? And most importantly, how can we align ourselves with those beliefs?


 

Here are a few gentle reminders to nurture and refine our perception:


  • Cultivate Self-Awareness: Take time to reflect on your thoughts, beliefs, and aspirations. Understand your strengths, acknowledge your weaknesses, and embrace the uniqueness that is you.

  • Find the Silver Linings: Practice gratitude daily. Even on the toughest days, find something to be thankful for. It shifts your focus from what's lacking to what's abundant.

  • Stay Inspired: Surround yourself with positivity. Whether it's reading books, listening to podcasts, or chatting with like-minded friends, expose yourself to ideas that fuel your dreams and broaden your perspectives.

  • Embrace Change: Life is a journey of constant evolution. Embrace change with an open heart and a curious mind. See every challenge as an opportunity for growth and learning.

  • Visualize Success: What does success mean to you? Create a vivid picture of your dreams and aspirations. Let this image guide your actions and decisions, infusing them with purpose and intention.

  • Stay Present: In the midst of life's hustle and bustle, remember to stay present. Ground yourself in the here and now, savoring each moment as it unfolds.


Perception isn't about seeing the world as it is, but as we choose to see it. It's about painting our reality with the colours of our dreams and aspirations. So let's take control of our perceptions, one step at a time, and create a life that's truly worth living.


By examining our own self-perception, we can gain a deeper understanding of our values, beliefs, strengths, and weaknesses. This knowledge can help guide us towards our goals, allowing us to make decisions that align with our true selves. In essence, our perception of ourselves is the foundation upon which our lives are built. It is the internal compass that guides us through life's twists and turns. So before we concern ourselves with the perceptions of others, let's take a moment to look inward and ask ourselves, "How do we perceive ourselves?"


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